How Humbling Yourself In Your Time of Need Changes Everything
Tricia
Goyer
The other day I was cooking dinner when my six-year-old son
rushed into the kitchen.
Beads of sweat slid down his red face. “I’m so hot. You never
get me anything to drink.”
I stirred my spaghetti sauce with one hand as I turned to him.
“Excuse me?”
His voice rose in a full, high-pitched whine. “You never give me
anything to drink!” He waved his hands and dropped to the floor.
I took in a breath and then released in, telling myself to keep
my voice steady, calm. “I’d be happy to get you a drink. I just need you to
ask.”
He kicked his foot against the floor. “But I want a drink now!”
“I know you do.” I peered down at him. “And as soon as you
ask the right way I’m happy to get some some ice cold water.”
And then my son stood, smiled up at me and asked so sweetly for
a drink of water …NOT!
Instead, he whined and fussed more. Finally, I asked him to
leave the kitchen.
You know what? He never did ask. In fact, he didn’t get anything
to drink until fifteen minutes later when we were sitting down to dinner. He
was so bent on complaining and whining—in feeding his discontent—he didn’t want
to release his control in order to ask me for help. I would have gladly given
him the drink he requested if only he asked in the right away.
Feeding Our Discontent
I wish I could say this is just a little kid issue, but I’ve
been there myself. During my teen years I lived in that storm of discontent. I
complained when things didn’t go my way. I worried. I fretted. I fought.
I even took matters into my own hands when I found myself
facing an unplanned pregnancy at age 15. My own fears and worries led me to a
choice I now regret—I had an abortion.
It wasn’t until years later, at age 17 when I was pregnant
again, that things took a turn for the better. It’s then I humbled
myself and turned to God. By this point I realized the whining,
complaining, and acting out wasn’t getting me what I wanted or needed.
At six months along, I wrapped my arms around my growing stomach
and prayed, “Lord, if you can do anything with my life, please do.”
God showed up big time. He not own gave me Himself (which is the
best!), He has also led me on a journey where radical, and wonderful things,
have happened. This has included marrying a wonderful Christian man, having two
more kids, starting a crisis pregnancy center, mentoring teen moms, adopting
seven more children, and writing over 70 books!
God didn’t just offer me a cup of cool water when I asked. He
opened the floodgates of blessing. But it took me humbling myself and
seeking Jesus to meet my needs.
This reminds me of a Scripture I was reading just this
morning, “I called on your name, LORD, from the depths of the pit.
You heard my plea: ‘Do not close your ears to my cry for relief.’ You came near
when I called you, and you said, ‘Do not fear.’ You, Lord, took up my case; you
redeemed my life,” Lamentations 5:55-58.
Mumbling, complaining and griping is easy, but they rob us of
having our greatest needs met. Yet when we humble ourselves and turn to God,
things will change for the better.
When we call to the Lord, He hears us. When we turn to Him, He
comes. When we call to Him, He reminds us that He is present and we have no
reason to fear. When we place our needs in His court, Jesus redeems our life.
It took a lot to humble me as a teen—two unplanned
pregnancies in fact. Yet I’m thankful that I learned back then that when I turn
to God He will meet my needs. He will meet them in more
wonderful ways than I ever expected.
You can read more about how God can show up radically in your
life in the book Walk It Out: The
Radical Result of Living God’s Word One Step at a Time .
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Tricia Goyer is the author of over 70 books,
including her popular works of Amish fiction, contemporary
fiction, and non-fiction titles. She and her husband, John, are the parents of
ten and the grandparents of four.
A best-selling
author, Tricia also founded Hope Pregnancy Ministries in Northwestern Montana
and leads a Teen MOPS Group in Little Rock, Arkansas.
The homeschool
mom has co-authored with Max Lucado, Robin Jones Gunn, and many other Christian
writers. Well-known for her inspirational public speaking and her personal
blog, Tricia has over 100,000 social media followers. With a heart for teenage
mothers, adoption, and missions work, Tricia spends much of her time
ministering to others in her local community and around the world.
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1 comment:
Blog post everyone can benefit from with the reminder--humbling ourself instead of complaining when things are not going well. Thankful God will take care of us when we call on His Name.
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