Today we welcome Victoria Kimble to my blog. Victoria is very graciously giving away a copy of Harmony Blues! To enter leave a comment and include contact information.
When I was in junior high, I brought my lunch to school
every day. We didn’t have money for me to buy lunch, so I had to carry the
brown bag of shame into the cafeteria, where hundreds of eyes turned toward me
at the deafening crinkle my lunch bag made when I opened it to pull out my
usually squished sandwich. Girls with perfectly done hair and way more makeup
than I wore stopped dabbing the grease off their cafeteria pizza and stared at
me before turning to giggle with their friends.
Okay, it probably wasn’t that bad. But I felt like I stuck
out like an obnoxious neon orange in a sea of calm and cool blue. Now that I’m
older, I can look back and realize that when kids were whispering to each
other, there was an almost 100% chance that they weren’t talking about me. But
back then I was so sure that every word was a comment on how awful I looked or
how dumb I was acting.
Junior high was hard for me. I know it was hard for most
people. And I’m sure it is still hard for those kids who teeter between
childhood and teenage years. Add in social media and the expectations built up
by the entertainment culture and our kids have their work cut out for them.
My heart is so tender toward tweens. The thought of what
they are facing drives me to write stories for them. I want so badly to save
them from the awkward pain they are sure to encounter, but I know that is
unrealistic. Since my stories can’t save them, I hope they tell them three
things:
1. They are not alone. They are not the only ones who feel out of
place. Most kids do, even if they put on a brave front. I hope that if they
know that most of the kids feel the same way they do, then they can take the
pressure off themselves and not feel like they have to perform at some made up
level.
2. They can stand up for what is right. It
might not solve all their problems right away, but it is right. And in the end, it is always better to choose what is right,
even when it might not be popular.
3. They can choose their own friends. They
are not stuck with the same friends they’ve had in the past, especially if
those friends are beginning to make poor choices. Kids have the power to choose
to spend time with people who are kind to them and to others, and sometimes the
bravest thing they can do is seek out those kinds of friends.
In Harmony Blues, book three in The
Choir Girls series, Brittany faces all three of these dilemmas. Between
a major life change at home and the sudden betrayal of her long-time best friend,
Brittany finds herself having to navigate the rough waters of friendship and
forgiveness.
Most of all, I hope that my stories give tweens hope. Hope
that they will make it through these tumultuous years and they will come out on
the other side stronger and wiser. Tweens just need to be reminded of this
often. They’ll make it.
5 comments:
Tweens face so much today with social bullying today. Thank you for sharing your thoughts for tweens, Victoria Kimble. Harmony Blues sounds like a wonderful story giving a message of hope. It'll be perfect to share with tweens at church.
marilynridgway78 [at] gmail [dot]com
Looks like a must read. Bonnie Traher. muthhruv3@hotmail.com If you need my mailing address I will post it.
If you are interested in presenting the series to your youth group, contact media@touchpointpress.com for a sell sheet and info on each title. God bless you all!
I'm going to see if I can purchase these books for our church library. Definitely issues that tweens face and could help someone with their insecurities.
Arletta
tmkgrup2soon(AT)hotmail(DOT)com
Congratulations, Arletta!
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